Rapid Response Team

Pray for Christmas in Newtown

Chaplains, Community Face Season of Tragedy

December 21, 2012 - How do you celebrate Christmas in the midst of heavy grieving? For the crisis-trained Billy Graham chaplains, it can mean spreading hope and Good News about the Christ Child that was born.

Pray for Christmas in Newtown

"We know now this time of year, that your family can be at peace and at rest with the Lord."
— Chaplain Toni New

Pray for Christmas in Newtown

Christmas in Newtown, Conn., will forever be changed.

The mass shooting last week at Sandy Hook Elementary School — coming less than two weeks before Christmas — has not only made it impossible for some to celebrate this year, but for years to come.

Many have taken down Christmas decorations at their home. Some had wrapped presents for a lost loved one under their tree.

“How is it even humanly possible for something like this to happen?” said Rapid Response Team Chaplain Coordinator Jack Dowling, one of 10 chaplains deployed by the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association the day of the shooting.

The timing, this close to Christmas, has undoubtedly added a layer of difficultly to Newtown, which still has some lights and trees around town. Christmas will go on. But it will be unlike ever before. And some in the community have Christmas at the forefront of their mind, and want to dialogue about the deeper meaning.

“Jesus did come and Jesus was born and Jesus was a babe at this time of year,” chaplain Toni New replays some of the conversations she’s had. “And we know now this time of year, that your family can be at peace and at rest with the Lord. And you can be there with Him too someday if you have a relationship with Him.

“And that’s what we have to speak to them: hope, and knowing that they can rejoin their family member; that this is not the end.”

Much of the ministry has been to the First Responders and to the general community, but some of the crisis-trained chaplains have had encounters with family members at restaurants and the hotel.

Rapid Response Team Director Jack Munday gave a training at a local church on Sunday evening on how to best deal with traumatic situations. A chaplain is being made available for each of the 20 funerals that have started this week, presenting the family with a Billy Graham Training Center Bible.

“Almost without exception, across denominational backgrounds, they are appreciative of our presence,” Dowling said. “We’ll give a brief word of encouragement to the family and sometimes prayer.”

And there is much need for prayer as the community is still in shock. Here are a few ways you can remember Newtown in prayer over the Christmas season:

1. For the community of Newtown: As Christmas quickly approaches, there will be some families who have wrapped gifts under the tree for a loved one that was lost in the Sandy Hook shooting. Pray that this community is able to celebrate Christmas; that the peace of Christ would permeate through Newtown.

2. For the First Responders: For those who were among the first to respond to Sandy Hook Elementary School, haunting images are making it hard for some to even sleep, as they awaken with flashbacks. Please pray for emotional stability for these First Responders as well as others in the community who are dealing with survivor's guilt and are taking down Christmas decorations.

3. For the Rapid Response Team chaplains and others ministering in Newtown: A deployment like this takes a toll on everyone and those ministering to the hurt and broken are no exception. Pray for the Billy Graham chaplains, including some who will help share the hope and love of Christ over Christmas, foregoing time with their own families to serve the Newtown community.

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85 Comments

Roz says 12.31.2012, 09:46 a.m.

Out of the darkness comes light. May this light envelope the families of Newtown. Christ is the light; may many draw closer to Him.

Sara says 12.27.2012, 1:48 p.m.

Lord Jesus came to me and lifted me out of fear a nd sorrow. He healed me. He can and wi ll do this for the people of Newtown.

Jo says 12.25.2012, 8:05 p.m.

From across the world I pray that God will comfort and strengthen each of the families affected and provide His peace that passes all understanding. May the Holy Spirit, the Parakletos, the One who comes alongside, be with you.

melissa says 12.24.2012, 12:54 a.m.

my prayers are with the families. my heart grieves also. my prayer is the the families will know that they are not alone. that this has touched my heart and the hearts of many others. May they be drawn closer to the Lord because he loves them dearly

Margaret says 12.23.2012, 7:06 p.m.

God Bless the dear people of Newtown. May God's grace and love sustain you in the days ahead and your memories always be precious.

Annie says 12.23.2012, 12:08 a.m.

Holy Spirit, Come and burn every heart with Your Mighty Resurrection power,.....Lord Jesus, fill our hearts with Your LOVE,.....LOVE,.....LOVE,.....instead of hate, in Jesus name. My prayers are with you. AMEN!

barb says 12.23.2012, 11:36 a.m.

Please know that Our Heavenly Father has His loving arms wrapped around your beautiful babies. They no longer face evil in a sin-sick world. May His Light shine on you, may His Peace comfort you. Numbers 6:24-26

Mary says 12.22.2012, 4:48 p.m.

May the God of all comfort strengthen you all in these difficult. While is no logical explaination for some situations in life this been one such, may the God of all peace be yours now and always .As you approach the coming days my prayers are yours

Robert says 12.22.2012, 1:07 p.m.

Our hearts ache for the children, teachers and families of Sandy Hook Elemementary. I know our Lord 's comforting presence is with them. "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed ." Psalm 34:14.

Marilyn says 12.22.2012, 12:09 a.m.

They're in heaven looking down on their families and friends. May this give comfort to those who knew them. God bless all in Newtown.

Janet Moses says 12.22.2012, 03:30 a.m.

Prayer is a powerful weapon. God be with the broken hearts.

Gloria says 12.22.2012, 00:22 a.m.

Newtown, please remember these words from Lamentations: Because of the Lord's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.

Terri says 12.21.2012, 8:27 p.m.

I pray that Jesus, will hold all the parents close to his heart, give them strength to get through the day , and take one day at a time and God will carry you through each and everything. God Bless you all.

Margarite says 12.21.2012, 7:15 p.m.

Thank God for Him. I know that without God we are lost souls. May these families come to know the love of God who gave us His Son as a baby but, 33 years later He was crucified for us so we who believe in Him can spend eternity in His presence. Amen!

Linda says 12.21.2012, 5:51 p.m.

May the power of the Holy Spirit continue to fill the hearts and minds of all the families that have lost their loved ones. And may they turn their eyes upon you Jesus, the perfector of faith. , please carry these families in your loving embrace.

Donna says 12.21.2012, 4:23 p.m.

Handel wrote the "Messiah" and one song from Isaiah says:" Comfort Ye My People". May our Lord comfort all who had to endure this tragic day and may those who have died be forever in the arms of our Loving Father. Amen

Sue says 12.21.2012, 1:29 p.m.

May God's Mighty Grace and Peace in Jesus Christ through the Power of the Holy Spirit be in all who have been so tragically affected by this horrific sadness...may you each find peace, comfort and assurance of God's Great Love in Jesus Christ.

Sherrie says 12.21.2012, 1:29 p.m.

God bless this town and every parent, child, and loved one. I cannot imagine the loss everyone is feeling but please know the whole world is feeling your pain and greef. No words can change anything only prayer and time. Love and prayers.

georgina says 12.21.2012, 1:22 p.m.

God will heal the broken hearts , he will comfort you just call on Him in your time of need. I pray that every single person affected will in time be able to heal and move on iin Jesus name. Thank you

Alet says 12.21.2012, 1:22 p.m.

I am still in prayer for these beautiful people whose loved ones have gone before them. May God change every tear into a jewel. May His calmness and peace embrace you all.

Sue Ann says 12.21.2012, 1:12 p.m.

Will continue to pray that the peace that passes all understanding is with each and every person affected by this tragedy.

Rhonda says 12.21.2012, 1:04 p.m.

I lost my daughter this year also. She left behind a 15 month old son. I like to think that she is loving and caring for Newtown's children as they wait for their parents to join them, and she waits for her baby too.Praying for all the families.

Louise says 12.21.2012, 1:01 p.m.

My heart breaks for all the children and their families.Pray God healing Grace on all of them.God Blessings to all the rapid responcers and the whole community.Praying for all the Country.

Kay says 12.21.2012, 12:49 a.m.

Praying for all the people of Newtown in their sorrow, that God will help heal their hearts and give them hope that they will see their loved ones again in heaven.

Patty says 12.21.2012, 12:42 a.m.

My heart goes out to this hurting community. Praying they will know God's peace and praying for all those who are working so hard to help them.

Rob says 12.21.2012, 11:25 a.m.

With the family that been affected with this incidents my prayer is that they may come to know our Lord Jesus Christ to the very deepest of their heart, I only Christ can heal the wounded heart, remember the first christmas during King Herald - killing all the baby's during the time - but we have heard and seen to thre scripture, when Christ was born the world experience the glorious presence of God "glory to God in the highest and peace on earth and good will to mankind." Hallelujah! To the King of Glory. Your Comment (Limit up to 250 characters). This area is for comments only.

Connie says 12.21.2012, 10:26 a.m.

I am praying for these famiilies and for the first responders. As I think of our Lord's birth I think of the situation that surrounded his parents. Harod wanted to kill Jesus and he did kill 2,000 boys. God was there for them and He is for us.

Mary says 12.21.2012, 10:08 a.m.

The whole world is grieving for these poor victims of a horrible tragedy.May God's peacea be with all the families who lost their love ones.Our prayers are with you.

Holly says 12.21.2012, 09:40 a.m.

May their hearts be filled with loving kindness that only the Lord Jesus Christ can fulfill.

Karen says 12.21.2012, 09:17 a.m.

May God wrap his loving arms around each and every family who has lost a loved one. I can't imagine their heartache. I have been praying for these families and hope they can get some peace in their hearts.

Bob says 12.21.2012, 08:09 a.m.

I pray for the Love and Grace of Jesus to cover "all" those involved and affected in this tragic event. Lord Jesus, please draw us closer to you, Amen.

Esther says 12.21.2012, 07:56 a.m.

I have never lost a child, but I lost my husband 9 years ago on the 22nd of December so I know how they must feel. It is not easy, but we have a God who is able to comfort us and help us thru the trying time. May He comfort you at this time.

Mary says 12.21.2012, 07:40 a.m.

I cannot imagine what this community is experiencing. But God knows each heart, feels each heartache, sees every tear. He is just a whisper away. I pray that this community will let God respond to their needs and heal their pain.

olivia says 12.21.2012, 06:32 a.m.

It hurts so much ,I have just lost my husband and i am still grieving and ,I was awake when,I saw the news of what happen in newtown ,I love children and my heart was shatter,just like our lord his heart was broken too.god bless u all ! Amen

Theresa says 12.21.2012, 04:23 a.m.

Please let us follow the example of the Amish community and lift up the Lanza famiily in prayer. The are suffering just as much, if not more so than the other families. May God guide, direct and bless you as you minister to all involved.

Randall says 12.21.2012, 02:01 a.m.

I pray for the families and their great loss. I pray for the Chaplains to give them strength to carry on. I pray for the first responders that they may find peace and hope. I pray that this we reach out to those in need with the love of Christ. Amen

Beverly says 12.21.2012, 01:11 a.m.

We have been praying for the families and friends who lost loved ones last Friday. We are praying for the Newtown community. As soon as I heard the news, I started praying for Franklin Graham and Samaritans Purse's ministry.

Marla says 12.20.2012, 11:27 p.m.

May our Lord Jesus Christ give comfort to all of us who are suffering with the families of the lost loved ones. We are all God's family and we all grieve with you and find peace in our Lord as he comforts us during this tragic time.

Chris says 12.20.2012, 11:26 p.m.

I pray for the survivors to be comforted and helped till the hurt gets better. I don't know what gets in to peoples heads to do such evil to any one.

Doug says 12.20.2012, 11:26 p.m.

Rest assured we here in Australia are praying for you all affected by this tragedy.You are all in our thoughts.May Gods Special Peace rest with you all.In Jesus name we pray.God Bless

Mary Lou says 12.20.2012, 10:48 p.m.

We have wonderful people in this country. Our priests, ministers and rabbis are among the best, taking the load of sorrow from their parishners as best they can. They give great solice in these times of horror. They are always in my prayers.

Evelyn says 12.20.2012, 10:14 p.m.

I will continue to pray for all the families and the community. I cannot imagine the pain they feel I have been so heart broken since this terrible tragedy. Thank God for BGEA and will always keep them in prayer.

Dan says 12.20.2012, 9:35 p.m.

This unspeakable tragedy makes us all realize that eternity is only a few heartbeats away. May we stop at this Christmas time to pray for these families for Peace. A Peace which can only come from knowing Jesus Christ as our personal savior.

Mia says 12.20.2012, 8:06 p.m.

I thank God for what BGEA is doing! My husband and I do stand in the gap for being God;s hands and feet to these hurting people.

Janet says 12.20.2012, 6:58 p.m.

May our Lord Jesus be glorified in this horrific act! Lord come down from heaven on us, your people, and teach us how to pray in your Spirit for the hurting people in Newton. Lord reveal salvation to those who don’t know you and give them peace.

Janet says 12.20.2012, 6:16 p.m.

There are no words that can express the pain and suffering the Newton community is experiencing. I pray for each person that has been touched by this horrific time. God so loves his little children and his tears are flowing the same as mine.

Ver says 12.20.2012, 5:57 p.m.

The Word of God should be an boldly preached in every school where a Holy Spirit filled preacher is sharing the good news.That guy who killed the kids is so much devil possessed.May the Lord heal all the relatives of these kids spiritually

Pam says 12.20.2012, 5:53 p.m.

I have been praying for God to give peace to all those that have lost love ones. And I will continue to pray for them and all the people of Newtown.

Marlene says 12.20.2012, 5:05 p.m.

As I thinh of these little babies it brings back a memory of years ago when a mother dwowned her to small kids . The Greene's came out with a song Jesus Rocking Chair I know that they are up there with Jesus today in that chair cradled in his arms

Audrey says 12.20.2012, 4:58 p.m.

Yes this happening has had an effect on everyone's Christmas, all those families have been in our prayers constantly since this occurred. May the Peach of Christ be especially with all those families and all of us.

Sam says 12.20.2012, 4:12 p.m.

Pray'n that ALL people that this terrible evil has touched will be healed by the power in The Lord Jesus ........Behold I am the lord , the God of all flesh, is there anything to hard for me ...Jeremiah 32:27

Judie says 12.20.2012, 4:06 p.m.

This time of year is important although tragic struck, we are reminded that God so loved the world that he sent His Son Jesus to save us. and we all will be reunited with our loved ones one day. Have faith and believe.

Patrick says 12.20.2012, 3:12 p.m.

May Jesus Christ our Lord in unity with the Holy Spirit provide unending comfort to the family members of the most innocent victim's, Âsurvivors, and to the emergency responders and to the BGEA Rapid Response Team.  In Jesus Christ's name I pray.

Andrea says 12.20.2012, 3:10 p.m.

My heart goes out to those that lost someone in that horrible incident. I know from my heart that the BGEA minister will say and give the support that all need so deeply. My sympathy go out to those families and my heartfelt thanks to BGEA.

Regina says 12.20.2012, 2:49 p.m.

Last Friday, when I heard about it at worked I had tears in my eyes for these precious little children and the adults who were taken care of them. I have been praying for this community every day since

Renee says 12.20.2012, 2:45 p.m.

Got bless Billy Graham and Franklin Graham and all who are associated with them... God bless the babies he will take good care of them.. God so loves the children.....

Beverly says 12.20.2012, 2:45 p.m.

Praying for all of you in Newton who are serving and those suffering,God's grace is sufficient to heal our wounds also pray that those suffering withuot the Lord will come to Him. that maybe some will use this tragedy to bless others who are in pain.

Betty says 12.20.2012, 2:36 p.m.

So glad to know that the chaplains from Billy Graham association were able to be on the ground so quickly. I too have been praying for that peace that passes all understanding.

Anne says 12.20.2012, 2:28 p.m.

There is a glorious day coming when the evil and death of this world will be vanished forever, never again to touch the children of God. “He who testifies to these things says, ‘Yes, I am coming soon.’ Amen. Come, Lord Jesus.” (Revelation 22:20) Yes…come quickly, Lord Jesus.

Lidia says 12.20.2012, 2:16 p.m.

May the Lord bless everyone that is affected by this tragedy, all families and those that responded to the tragic event and also those from First Rapid Response Team. I cannot imagine what a devastation they must be facing, however I pray for peace.

kay says 12.20.2012, 2:13 p.m.

My dad died of cancer on Dec 23rd. So I can imagine the pains the community is going thru. We are praying for everyone @ a time like this. Evil happen cos we live in a fractured world. May God's peace be on those that lost their loved ones.

YM says 12.20.2012, 2:11 p.m.

Jesus gives a peace. The world cannot give this peace. Ask Him for the peace that surpassess all human understanding. Accept His Love. Let Him give you joy...there may never be a ":why"...

Roxanne says 12.20.2012, 2:10 p.m.

I have been praying for the residents and families of Newtown, since this horrific event occured.

James says 12.20.2012, 2:08 p.m.

As a 71 year old, I have lost loved ones. I grieve the losses, but know they are in the arms of Jesus. I can't explain it but know that ".. all things work together for good to them that love God who are called according to His purpose.

Gloria says 12.20.2012, 2:05 p.m.

I have been praying for the parents and other family members along with the community for our Heavenly Father to have them sense the Lord's presence and that the Peace of God that passes all understanding will be with them.

judy says 12.20.2012, 1:55 p.m.

Gods is always been with each of us. He knows every struggle He is right hand here with us, helping us through our daily walk He is always, He can be in yesterday, today, tommorrow and still never let go of your hand.

Rebekah says 12.20.2012, 1:50 p.m.

My thoughts and many prayers are with the families of all the victims and everyone else that was affected by this tragedy. God Bless you all.

Betty says 12.20.2012, 1:47 p.m.

I pray for these families and hope for them to somehow overcome this terrible tragedy. So little we can do to help, but never turn down a prayer.Thank you.

Farah says 12.20.2012, 1:46 p.m.

May the God of all comfort be with all who are mourning and may He grant them His peace which surpasses all understanding.

Helga says 12.20.2012, 1:43 p.m.

May they find comfort in their faith with God and seek comfort of friends and family during this difficult time. I will continue to remember them all in my prayers. There are 20 little angels in Heaven, I will never forget....

Glenna says 12.20.2012, 1:42 p.m.

I to am praying for the people fo Newtown may God comfort each one ,please pray for the father and brother of the shooter,they need Jesus. ,too.

Debby says 12.20.2012, 1:41 p.m.

Praying for this entire town and families who lost their loved ones... Praying for comfort and peace in the midst of such tragedy... we are allmourning with you... Our family will be praying.I know God is grieving for this town as well. Jesus wept

Karen says 12.20.2012, 1:40 p.m.

I lost a 4 year old son nearly 20 years ago in a tragic event. My heart is once again broken and grieving with these parents...I am praying as one who knows and feels their grief in a very real way!!! God's grace and faithfulness will not fail you!

Sam says 12.20.2012, 1:38 p.m.

I pray so very hard that our Lord and Savior will wrap all the grieving families in his loving healing hands, hold them close to him, and insure to them that their precious children are with him and will be waiting at Heaven's gate for their families

Melanie says 12.20.2012, 1:23 p.m.

I have and will continue praying for the parents of the children that are deceased. As well as the community itself. God will sustain, I am a witness to that. It hurts, yes, but God is the God of all comfort. He is too wise to make a mistake!

Sandra says 12.20.2012, 1:17 p.m.

Your town is constantly in our families' prayers Jesus loves the little children. They are all with Him in heaven. May your families let the love of the Lord come into your hearts.

Brad says 12.20.2012, 1:15 p.m.

We pray over not only those who suffer from tragic loss, but also everyone involved in the aftermath of healing, including everyone at the BGEA. May the Holy Spirit fill a portion of the void created by this life changing tragedy.

Jim says 12.20.2012, 1:14 p.m.

Jesus loves us this i know for the Bible(Gods Word) tells us so. Also the Holy Spirit that came to abide with me in October of 2001 when i was Born Again tells me so. Peace on earth only comes by Jesus Christ. Merry Christmas

Naomi Poole says 12.20.2012, 1:12 p.m.

My problems and cares can't even compare to suffering that these 20 families and community is going through at this Christmas season. I want Jesus to make me more thankful for my family and to show more love for them and the our country than ever.

Kathy says 12.20.2012, 12:58 a.m.

We are praying not only for the people of Newtown, but for all people this time of year who are mourning the loss of loved ones. May the peace of God rest on them.

ella says 12.20.2012, 12:52 a.m.

i will contuine to pray for everyone, because i know what it's like to be in a differicult situation. in knowing GOD i try to look at it the way he would.i think of the children as little flowers GOD needed for his garden

Rusty says 12.20.2012, 12:44 a.m.

Praying for those in Newtown, Jesus is comforting those who are hurting.

John says 12.20.2012, 12:44 a.m.

Thank you Franklin Graham and all the ministry of Samaritans Purse and the BGEA for the timely response to this critical need at Sandy Hook Elementary School. May God use you as a means to show others the way to Jesus.

E.W. Washington says 12.20.2012, 12:39 a.m.

I had two separate homicides in my family. My dad and my brother. I have and will pray for the fanilies of the victims, the children and others that have been affected, and those that God has provided to minister through to those ministering comfort.

Darlene says 12.20.2012, 12:37 a.m.

I have been praying for these families since this happened. Only the Lord can give comfort and peace to these families. I love my family so much so can only imagine. I pray for comfort and peace for each and every person that is involved.

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