My Answer

Does God ever give up on us? I wouldn't be surprised if He's given up on me because I can't count how many times I've told Him I'll live a better life, and then I forget all about it. He must be very disappointed in me. — R.E.

God doesn't give up on us until we give up on Him. Only when we repeatedly turn our backs on Him and stubbornly refuse His offer of forgiveness will He finally let us go. The Bible warns, "A man who remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed—without remedy" (Proverbs 29:1).

Have you reached that point? No, you haven't; if you had, you wouldn't be writing me or worrying about your salvation. The person who is in the most danger spiritually is the one who doesn't care about his or her spiritual state. Don't let that ever become true of you!

But your question concerns me, nevertheless, because it suggests that you have misunderstood what God expects of you. Does God just want you to behave better? To put it another way, does God promise to reward you with eternal life if you'll just try hard enough? Or does God want something else from you? The answer is "Yes"—God does want something else, and that "something" is for you to give your life to Jesus Christ.

You see, we are separated from God because of our sins, and our greatest need is to be forgiven and cleansed of them. This is why Jesus Christ came into the world. All your sins were placed on Him, and He died for you. Now God offers you salvation as a free gift—a gift Christ paid for with His blood. Repent of your sins and ask Christ to come into your life today.

 

41 Comments

christian says 5.25.2013, 04:02 a.m.

Read Romans 1:28 ask yourself Who am i really what is the real condition of my mind and hearth.please go to stickmanpublication.com Yes if you are seeking God it is because he has not given up on you, but as Paul says 1 Cor.9:27

Patricia says 5.8.2013, 3:24 p.m.

I need prayer please. I feel far from the Lord, I've sinned alot. I need him and I've turned from my evil ways. I was lead into sin and I should have never gone and I'm sorry. I don't know where to turn. I've lost my joy.

Steve says 5.6.2013, 1:18 p.m.

Part II. I struggled with my sins. But, to say my sins are too bad to be forgiven would mean we are selling short the price Jesus paid and we never want to do that. HIS DEATH IS GREATER THAN YOUR SINS

Steve says 5.6.2013, 1:15 p.m.

God will not give up on you.Just by you reading these words shows you are seeking a relationship with God. You reading these words right now is not an accident. This is literally God working in your life.

Sam says 4.17.2013, 5:46 p.m.

I'm about to give up. Say a prayer for me, please.

Christian says 4.15.2013, 11:00 p.m.

Also read the book of John in the Bible, you will like it... 1 John is a good book in the Bible when it comes to forgivenes.

Christian says 4.15.2013, 10:51 p.m.

You will be in my prayers brother/sister in Christ. Read the book steps to Christ by Ellen white. It's a great book to read and has helped me understand more and has encouraged me. It's free on an online site called the white estate.

Christian says 4.15.2013, 10:47 p.m.

Look up 2 Chronicles 7:14-15 I wasn't able to post all of it on the last comment. Remember He will never leave you nor forsake you no matter how lost you feel. Don't go by your feelings which are unreliable go by His promises. Deuteronomy 31:6.

Christian says 4.15.2013, 10:43 p.m.

2 Chronicles 7:14-15New International Version (NIV)14 if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will

Christian says 4.15.2013, 10:43 p.m.

In other words, if He died for those who would reject Him and not accept His gift even though He died for the,, then He will definitely hear those who call for Him

Christian says 4.15.2013, 10:41 p.m.

The devil will make you feel like Jesus doesn't hear you, which is a lie. Our father loves us, and it is the devils job to make us feel lost and discouraged. Jesus died for you and me when we were sinners. Why wouldn't he hear you call out to Him?

Christian says 4.15.2013, 10:35 p.m.

John 6:37, "All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away." God will never cast you out when you come to Him to pray with a sincere heart wanting to change.

lila says 4.14.2013, 8:15 p.m.

I feel lost and far from God there have been times I have felt condemned even like he blocks me out when I pray. So please please pray for me I need encouragement.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 4:09 p.m.

These free books help me understand more.The Great ControversyThe Desire of AgesSteps to ChristThese books are all by a women called ellen white.Some good devotionals by her as well are called Gods Amazing GraceThat I May Know Him

Christian says 4.5.2013, 3:26 p.m.

Ephesians 3:19.remember if you feel down at anytime, God is LOVE, 1 John 4:8, and He loves us more than we know.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 3:23 p.m.

Having concern or conviction are signs that God is still calling you.If you confess your sins, no matter how low you are, He will forgive you,Psalm 86:5, and make you a new creation! 2 Corinthians 5:17.....remember He can save to the uttermost

Christian says 4.5.2013, 3:13 p.m.

If you see your sin and it is only the Holy Spirit who can convict you of sin.. God is still with you! Repent and be glad and praise God for what a great father we have in Him.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 3:08 p.m.

If you still want God, there is hope, repent and you will be saved!! He promises us if we repent He will save us in 1 john1:9 and Remember too, if you see that you are sinful it is only the Holy Spirit who can bring conviction,john 16:8-13.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:57 p.m.

Jeremiah 3:22 New Century Version (NCV)22 “Come back to me, you unfaithful children, and I will forgive you for being unfaithful.”“Yes, we will come to you, because you are the Lord our God.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:39 p.m.

Romans 8:38-39 is great too.i went through something too were I felt that I wasn't accepted by God.....remember, the devil will try anything to discourage you, But remember this even more, GOD IS THE KING OF THE UNIVERSE. Our problems become tiny now

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:33 p.m.

Deuteronomy 31:6New International Version (NIV)6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:31 p.m.

Remember that God loves us more than we can know and that the only time we are in danger is when we consistently have a mindset of not wanting God or Jesus has already come and we are not following God.here are some verses that will help.John 6:35-45

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:26 p.m.

Remember also that God sometimes allows us to go through tough times to help build our character, but is always with us through those times. Also, you're feelings aren't a reliable source when it comes to seeing whether you are God's child or not.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:22 p.m.

Ephesians 3:19New Century Version (NCV)19 Christ’s love is greater than anyone can ever know, but I pray that you will be able to know that love. Then you can be filled with the fullness of God.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:16 p.m.

Never think you are too far out for God to,save you He can save to the UTTERMOST. Jesus loves us more than we can imagine and when we get to heaven we will,still not be able to comprehend God's love for us.

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:07 p.m.

Finally remember that Jesus came on this earth to die for those that are lost and can save ALL , Hebrews 7:25 "Wherefore he is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him, seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for them."

Christian says 4.5.2013, 2:02 p.m.

Remember also that it is not just us and God on this planet, but the devil as well. He hates the fact when people call for mercy or ask God for guidance, and tries to greatly lie saying, "you won't be heard, you"re a disgrace, you're finished."

Christian says 4.5.2013, 1:57 p.m.

God always hears us when we call for mercy. Remember, He will always forgive us for any sin we repent of. 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."

j says 3.22.2013, 5:13 p.m.

Well, I have fears that God has left me, and it has driven me to the lowest point. I am in fear that I insulted His Grace.....Please pray for me, as I have no life left. I was alone and emotional and ask God some stupid questions. I am in fear.Pray.

Kathy says 2.19.2013, 3:35 p.m.

"Give your life to Jesus" what does that mean?? "You see, we are separated from God because of our sins" So if one continues in sin he/she is separated from God...correct?Now...tell me how GRACE has me covered, right!

greg says 2.7.2013, 09:59 a.m.

Im afraid I might be cursed or something. Like God doesn't hear me anymore. And out of the million chances He has given me, that He's finally just given up.

Stephanie says 2.3.2013, 10:23 p.m.

In line with jens comment. Is there any hope for me? I heard God calling me to receive Christ and I resisted and resisted. I believe the Holy Spirit has stopped calling me and that I am doomed to darkness. Am I destroyed without remedy?

Cathy says 2.1.2013, 00:35 a.m.

I am lost. God has given up on me Please pray. (Cathy, God does not ever give up on us!)

lamb says 8.4.2011, 08:13 a.m.

God never gives up on you. God will see all your evil and dislike it if you don't ask for forgiveness, but he will not give up on you. He won't do work in you unless you pray but God is good. You just stand strong on his shoulders.

Rachel says 1.15.2011, 01:58 a.m.

No, man has no right to say that. That is God's judgement call. No one elses

J.C. says 1.7.2011, 10:40 p.m.

Is it in mans right to make a judgement on his fellow man to say he is to far gone for God's mercy?

Gin says 11.16.2010, 10:49 a.m.

No way! He rises to show you mercy! He is faithful and just to forgive all your sins.

latoya says 11.12.2010, 03:47 a.m.

Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really appreciate you taking the time out to answer this question.

Jen says 9.25.2010, 2:36 p.m.

okay. Thank you

Devan says 9.20.2010, 10:51 p.m.

Like he said, if you want forgiveness then you never really gave up on Him.

Jen says 9.20.2010, 8:02 p.m.

What if you gave up on him.. and wanted to come back..will he still say there is no remedy and your doomed to ever lasting darkness?

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