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Falling Flat on One’s Face

March 1, 2010 - Who among us hasn’t, at one time or another, fallen flat on our face? Some people seem more prone to fall than others, more prone to failure.

Falling Flat on One’s Face

I recall one baby Christian (a grown man, but a baby Christian) who, if I believed in reincarnation, I would have said was the Apostle Peter back again—hot-tempered, big-hearted and impulsive.

The older Christians were waiting for this man to fall, and it wasn’t long before he obliged them.

He said later that the greatest stumbling block in the beginning of his Christian life was not his old drinking buddies, but skeptical Christians waiting for him to fall flat on his face so they could say, “I told you so!”

Many of us feel we have the gift of discernment when it comes to the faults and failures of other Christians—and on top of that, the gift of disapproval as well. But even our Lord came not to condemn (we were already condemned), “but that the world through him might be saved” (John 3:17, KJV).

“If a brother be overtaken in a fault [a different way of saying ‘falling flat on one’s face,’ perhaps] you who are spiritual restore such a one” (Cf. Galatians 6:1).

Who in your family or among your acquaintances do you most heartily disapprove of? Don’t you think that one is already eaten up with guilt? How can you show them kindness?

 

28 Comments

fareed says 2.5.2011, 3:26 p.m.

To all of us struggling CHRISTIANS .. it is important to remember that we have been warned that we are not fighting against flesh and blood, but against the principalities of darkness ... and that unless we take on spiritual weapons, we are to loose the battles ...just know your strengths and where it comes from and praise HIM only and all the times... GOD bless us all....take care

Christine says 2.4.2011, 06:47 a.m.

Jo Nell perhaps you could encourage your sons by letting them know you are so proud of them that they made the best choices anyone could ever make by professing their Faith in Jesus Christ, getting Baptized and marrying Christian women who are bringing up their children in the Lord. Please appreciate plenty of people do not do any of these things. Credit to you. Maybe you could also let them know how much the world will be trying to pull their children away from God. This may prompt them to model better behavior. Children tend to learn a lot from the same sex parent apparently. I have noticed occasionally that men around those age groups do not seem to frequent Church as much as women, so they may go back when they are older. Please try to keep having Faith it will happen and treat them accordingly with love and hope in your heart.

Mark says 2.2.2011, 11:27 a.m.

Vincent you hit the nail on the head. and Mikey you as well. I have been a pastor a while now and just recently fell flat and am somewhat alone thinking where are my Christian brothers and sisters, but also realizing God is with me even in this place/period I am at and it isn't about believing on my part, it is about trusting Him in the midst of it all. He is God and He will bring me back, heal and restore me and for that, well I am thankful. Like Vincent said, that is why He sent His Son.

larry says 1.31.2011, 8:51 p.m.

I'm "flat on my face this moment"! however I must keep praying, reading, and believe THAT HE IS AND IS A REWARDER TO THOSE WHO DILIGENTLY SEEK HIM. hEB. 11: 6 THB

bc says 1.30.2011, 10:03 a.m.

Amen @Vincent! Thanks for the post and reminder. Whoever among you that is without sin cast the first stone. Nobody qualifies! We have all failed at one time or another and we will fail again. One thing God knows we are guaranteed to do in this lifetime is fail. That is why He sent His son. PTL!!!

M.A.S. says 1.30.2011, 10:01 a.m.

I fall flat on my face all the time and I seem to blame the lord for it every time.I haven't been able to hear or understand what the lord is trying to teach me by my falling,maybe I need some advise on how to listen to what he is trying to tell me.

Angie says 1.29.2011, 11:54 a.m.

Dear kanawhaOneKanobi, I tell my children that the Lord will always listen to a repented and contrite heart, Psalm 51:17, I encourage you to read all of Psalm 51. I believe that I too would be constantly falling on my face if I did not pray, read my Father's word daily and only listen too and watch programs that teach His word and/or wholesome movies that encourage Godly values, instead of the worldly programs on radio, movies and tv that are lustful, depressing and discouraging to people, your mind will be renewed moment by moment and day by day, Romans 12:1-21. We as Christians must put on the Whole Armor of God, Ephesian 6:1 in order to shield ourselves from the enemy who comes to steal and to kill and to destroy us, John 10:10. We must all examine ourselves to make sure we are walking moment by moment, day by day in the Power of the Spirit, Galations 5:16-26. About your question, "What happens to the one who falls flat on his face'? If you have commited your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you practice doing all the things I mentioned above like praying, reading His word daily, attending a bible believing church, walking in the Spirit moment by moment, let your eyes and ears see and hear only radio and tv programs that will not offend Jesus Christ, ask yourself (WWJD?) What would Jesus do? and then do those things, then the "falling on your face" wiill happen less and less in your life because your mind and heart will be renewed by God'

Colleen says 1.28.2011, 5:44 p.m.

Yeshua- Jesus knows our failures and yet he still loves us. He also knows our hearts. He will never leave you nor forsake you. He is faithful and just to forgive our sins. So even though you fail, God has mercy and will forgive. We are free from condemnation. We will never be perfect. We must strive to be like Jesus and show the love that Jesus gives us but it does not mean we will not mess up on our Christian walk. He is our hope.

faye says 1.28.2011, 2:06 p.m.

I believe in forgiveness. It doesn't matter if people forgive you, we are human and we fall sometimes. God forgives.

Megan says 1.28.2011, 1:23 p.m.

Jo Nell, take heart. We prayed for my crotchety, wayward father for more than 25 years before he finally committed his life to the Lord. If you can, try to imagine God as Creator of the Universe, all the stars, galaxies, planets, etc. From his imagination came the skunk, the kookaburra, the koala. He's bigger than you could ever imagine, and He is fully capable and ready and willing to bring your sons back to Him. Keep praying and believing!

Vincent says 1.28.2011, 08:55 a.m.

WARNING!! The stone throwers in the comments section may steal the truth and joy of the original note. IF CHRIST FOREGIVES THEM SO SHOULD YOU! 1 Corinthians 10:12 MSG. Don't be so naive and self-confident. You're not exempt. You could fall flat on your face as easily as anyone else. Forget about self-confidence; it's useless. Cultivate God-confidence. Everyone falls. That is whay Christ came.

Anthony says 1.27.2011, 11:31 p.m.

We must first believe that nothing is hidden from the Lord's sight. He has callled us to love and never give up hope even when it appears there is no hope. The outcome is the Lord's.

Christy says 1.27.2011, 8:16 p.m.

I assume in this article that the person who has "fallen on his face" is repentant. Matthew 5:24 If he is not repentant it may be loving to rebuke him Luke 17:3, and if he doesn't repent, even to excommunicate him 1 Corinthians 5. If a person continues to "falls on his face" by repeatedly committing a sin, such as adultery, it may be more loving to hold him accountable for his actions, in order that he might come to genuine repentance. As Renata asked above "Whats the different from falling and living in sin?" I guess the difference is genuine repentance, with a changed heart.

Jo Nell says 1.27.2011, 7:51 p.m.

I have 4 drifting Sons. They were raised in the Church. All of them made a profession of Faith in Jesus Christ, and were Baptised when they were young Children. They are all in their 40's now, married, and have their own Children, Non of them go to Church, but their Wives take the Children to Church. They have drifted away from the Church and 1 away from the Lord. I pray for them daily, and also they are on my Church Prayer List. I keep standing on the Promise to train up a Child in the way that they should go, so that when they are old they won't part from it. This has been going on now for about 6 yrs. I am getting a little frustrated with the Lord, for I believe I am praying according to His will. I have never shown any anger or judgement on their behavior, and have believed in being patient and loving, and believing that God will hear my cry in Prayer. Have tried to talk to them, but to no avail. Would be very grateful for any suggestion or advise you may have to give me. Sincerely in Christ, A Very Concerned Mother

svd2srvhm says 1.27.2011, 7:05 p.m.

Oh what a wretched man I am said Paul...that which I don't want to do I do....yes that is how I find myself...fighting the "flesh"..I think the key is not to give up and continue to fight our "flesh". When we don't care anymore then we are treading on thin water. There is something God wants to work out of us and we need to ask Him so that we don't become discouraged with the work He is doing in us...He who began a good work will bring it to completion and His plans are to prosper us! Praise God who leads us from glory to glory! Lord have mercy on us.

Mikey likes it says 1.27.2011, 5:47 p.m.

I have found that "other Christians" are the last to forgive and restore. Even the WORLD is more forgiving.

nancy says 1.27.2011, 4:48 p.m.

Give love, love and more love and Never stop praying for them.

bill says 1.27.2011, 4:46 p.m.

Good subject Mr. Graham, being politically correct might have something to do with this, I think of the good samaritan where most everyone past by is including christians that did this, you lose face when helping the helpless, must remain faithful to popular culture for acceptance, turn our hearts Lord :)

Brenda says 1.27.2011, 4:20 p.m.

This is a very convicting article.......thank you. I have to work on the "love and encouragement" part of my Christian walk.........forgive me Lord, for not living the example that you set for us all.

Joan says 1.27.2011, 3:49 p.m.

I also believe that many "christians" discourage non-believers from accepting Christ because they act like they are so "holier than thou". This can turn away a non-christian faster than anything. We are not to judge them or act like we are better than they are.

clara says 1.27.2011, 3:45 p.m.

We all at times fall short of the glory of God but it is He who picks us up dusts us off and puts us back on track and I thank God for people like Janice Rose who gives us these words of encouragement to see us through and guides us to enlightmentments such as this so we can be hopeful for the future. Praise God

Kim says 1.27.2011, 3:34 p.m.

KanawhaOneKanobi -- I believe that the reason Christians "fall on their face" isn't because they truly aren't saved... but that the devil comes after them more and more. Only YOU and the Lord know for sure if you are really saved. Once you have accepted Him as your Savior, you are, and always will be, saved. I too have fallen flat on my face many times, and like you, the Lord has continued to raise me up, dust me off, time and time again. It happens because we are only human... not because we are evil or a failure. And sometimes, I believe it is a way for our faith to be strengthened, even when it doesn't seem like it. GOD bless you, and I pray that you will continue to allow the Lord to keep "lifting you up".

Myrlande says 1.27.2011, 3:32 p.m.

A year and a half ago, my first love found me on facebook. He was going thru his second divorce and I had been through mine 13 years ago. I thought it was very romantic to have found him after 33 years so when he asks me to marry him over the phone I said "yes". We made lots of plans and promises to each other over the phone.I went to visit him and his family one year after we met online and three month after that we were married. He pretended to accept Christ in his life because I told him I would only marry a Christian. As we were driving from West (CA) to East (PA), one day after the wedding he started showing his true face though I didn't know it at the time. All the way through our trip I was being judged or critized for stupid things like my driving, my opinion on something or another. There was no more "Honey, or sweetheart" and he was constantly on the phone checking on his son. There was no "honeymoon". Soon after we arrived to his home, I hardly see him because he was too busy taking care of his 3 year old son and dealing with his ex-wife. Every time I ask to speak to him, he would tell me that he was busy. Then I heard the ex-wife was about to move into his old house. I became just a figment of the imagination in the house. His time was spent between his Mom, his son and ex-wife. I had no idea why we were married. Soon he did not come home on weekend. Whenever we would see each other, he was always on the defensive and would argue and curse at me.

Elizabeth says 1.27.2011, 3:29 p.m.

So what would you do if your brother is gay and he asks you to attend his ceremony which is out of an act of love he has for another man? Shall I attend out of love but not encouragement.

Renata says 1.27.2011, 2:57 p.m.

Whats the different from falling and living in sin?

Katie says 1.27.2011, 2:16 p.m.

What a wonderful article. We must walk in love at all times.

charla says 1.27.2011, 1:28 p.m.

this is so true and I believe it turns non Christians away from becoming a christian because they feel judged by others instead of the love and encouragement they should be receiving from believers, thank you for posting this article.

KanawhaOneKanobi says 1.27.2011, 11:06 a.m.

I agree with what the article says completely but it was disappointing in that I was hoping it would say what happens to the one who "falls flat on his face". I have fallen so many times that I'm becoming disfigured but the Lord keeps picking me up and back up. The point is in my concern is, why am I doing that? Does it mean I'm really not saved in the first place? Does it mean I'm doomed for failure? Does it mean I'm not doing something right? Does it mean I have an extremely evil spirit hovering over me dragging me down? I'd like to know. I love the Lord and I do my best but sooner or later, I fall "flat on my face".

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